Kissing?
Who is to say there is a perfect kisser? Everyone kisses differently. I've seen in T.V shows and movies about people talking about being a good kisser. How can one judge one self on how they kiss? It's not like basketball where you always shoot and make the basketball in. If you get it in enough, then you are a great player. But there's a lot more technique and style involved with kissing. Everyone likes different things. From experience, and I have kissed over four women, everyone kisses differently. Some girls like lots of tongue, as if the inside of your mouth was burning and their tongue could put out the fire. Others don't like it at all. And some... some play hide-n-seek with it. It's true.
And it's not only what you do with your tongue and lips pressed up against theirs. It's also what you do with your hands, arms, fingers, body, head, everything. It's all involved with kissing. It's one of the most intimate actions two people can share... and if done right, can be done for hours on end. It's understandable if a person finds someone else to be a good kisser because they are compatible. Everyone becomes compatible eventually. You learn how to compromise and what works with your partner. You get into the rhythm. I believe that a great kisser is able to quickly adapt into that feeling and kiss as if both pairs of lips were one entity flowing with passion and lust, fulfilling our basic desires of what kissing should be. At the same time, it should not be routine. It should be fun, kissing should be enjoyable. Surprises should be thrown in that throw the other person off, but in a way that just excites them more. Bite their bottom lip. Kiss their neck. If you can bring forth this sense of harmony and create the perfect balance of lip movement, tongue action, hand caressing, and head tilting, then and only then can you call yourself a good kisser.
My Girl
As we grow up and meet new people, we learn what we like and don't like, and what we want. And so I want to talk about what I want.
I want a girl who above all else, loves to laugh and can take jokes. Hands down. I'm a dork who does weird things at times, is extremely sarcastic borderlining asshole, who loves to make people laugh. It's what I do. I love to laugh and I need someone to laugh with me. I poke fun. I want a girl who knows how to be honest, because that's all I can ever expect. Honesty. I hate fake people, and hypocrites, and I can't take lies. I've come to hate it, because I've had some of my best friends betray my trust. I've learned to not be so trusting.
I also want a girl who loves to quote funny movies, because they are amazing. Sometimes it's all i do. I won't even have real conversations, I'll just quote movies like Anchorman, or 40 Year Old Virgin, and apparently sometimes now the Notebook. Oh, and I can't forget Zoolander either (As of now, I believe Superbad belongs on this list).
I used to think I didn't have a preference, but girls with dark hair and bright blue eyes is incredibly sexy. I prefer them shorter than me with a nice ass, like even when they wear sweat pants you know it's good stuff.
She has to have a passion for something, anything. It can be the silliest thing but if she loves it and she does it no matter what people think, then that's fine. As long as there's a fire somewhere in her heart, and she has goals and dreams and is working towards them instead of just dreaming them.
I need someone I can talk to for a very long time. It can be deep or real conversations, or just random silly things, and anything, but I need to love to talk to her and want to talk to her. I mean, there are some girls who are so boring, that even if what we are talking about is hilarious or engaging, that it becomes tiresome to even talk to them. I get annoyed when people don't get what I'm saying and are clueless, or are always asking extremely ridiculous questions. I'm not talking endocrinology here, jesus.
She has to be a party girl and have fun. I can't have someone who is not crazy and un-funloving.
She must KNOW how to DANCE.
I want her to be able to surprise me with random acts of kindness and tenderness. For her to feel safe and happy when she's with me, and when she leaves my side, she'd like to come back, even though we do have lives to lead. I want a girl who can be excited for being with me and it becomes obvious to everyone around us.
I'd love it if she knew how to cook, but that's not necessary lol..... shrimp... ham... omelettes.... pasta.... food =)
drinks beer... and plays beer pong.
She also has to be a bit weird... not freaky weird... but be dorky and do cute things that not everyone else does. They aren't bad things, but they make her different, imperfect, and stand out... and that's cool.
She has to be able to get me back with sarcastic comments to the point where I'm have no other response but... "You got me." I LOVE THAT. I love poking fun and it's fantastic if she can respond. And she has to teach me things about stuff i don't know, I love to learn...
I need to wake up with a smile on my face.
and i want her to need me.
